Why should I be the bigger person?

Did you think that I was going to ignore all the things that you did to make us reach the point ?

For months I’ve been quiet, trying to be the bigger person. Why should I be the bigger person? Fuck that shit! I’m going to let you know that everything you did, everything that you’ve said to hurt me. I trusted you, there’s nothing that I wouldn’t do for you because I considered you my rock.

I’m a fool for allowing my heart to ignore all the signs. There were always red flags but when you’re in love head over heels you are blind to a lot of things.

It’s time to stand up, use your voice don’t allow anyone to make you feel small. Catch your breath, plan your escape. Then and only then will you convince them that you’re serious. You deserve to be loved, respected, and cared for.


Name Change – Same Dee

Hi Friends,

I mentioned in few post back that I would be changing the name of my blog. I was loving the”musingsbyDee” but after several searches it was not available everywhere. I went back to the drawing board consulted with a friend and we came up with Deetheory, I knew I wanted my name to be apart of it, what I’m most comfortable with.

Deetheory will be the blog space where you can get advice, tips, book reviews, and just thoughts that are on my mind. I’m hoping that at least one person who comes across this space will know its a safe space we all experience life in different ways but at the end of the day, there’s hope 🙏. Everybody is on this road called life but your journey is unique to you. Some people will be driving on smooth surfaces while you’re trying to stay on course due to the number of potholes and turbulence, just know that once you reach your destination it’ll be all with it. Trust the process. You can overcome any situation as long as you put that effort into being your best self you’ll receive good outcomes. A Positive mindset develops Positive Outcomes.

I am still making changes to the blog and I hope that you’ll stick around on this journey with me.

Until Next Post


Name Change? Blogmas Day 12 & 13

I’ve been thinking about changing my name to something different. I will still review books but, I also like to write about random none book-related things. This blog is of course my E-Diary.

How do you guys feel about musingsbyDee? I want to broaden my niche on this blogosphere. I’m pretty excited about it and I am looking forward to sharing more on my blog. I’ve already started by changing the username. In the coming days, I will be doing some more work on my blog. I’m trying to make a smooth transition so bare with me and I hope you’ll stick around.

Have you ever thought about changing your name? What was that like? How did it affect your blog?

Until Next Post